Category: Direct Advice

  • Once you get her number

    One key principle when speaking with women in a romantic capacity is to practice patience. For example, once you get a girl’s number it can be tempting to text her and ask for a date immediately. This is a mistake. You should text her and say hello so that she knows it’s your number but…

  • Mario Kart and chill

    You should get good at Mario Kart. Girls always want to come over and play it if they like you. It’s an easy way to ask for sex without being too obvious and has the advantage of being something you do together instead of something you stare at together. Mario Kart also has a high…

  • List of conversation starters

    These are organized by context. Gym Museum Park Bookstore Comic Con Renaissance Fair Party with friends Library

  • Ethics and safety in pickup

    The inherit risk and challenge of pickup is that you are talking to strangers. In many ways pickup is a trust building exercise. So, it’s crucial that you develop an ethical set of principles that guide your treatment of women. In addition, you must always be aware of the safety aspect. Although you may think…

  • The binomial distribution in dating

    Dating has a pattern. You may have noticed it. You meet someone you like and you get to know her, then you either go further with the romance or you don’t. Often times the issue is simply talking to enough people to meet a woman who clicks with you. That’s hard. The Binomial distribution gives…

  • Pickup 101

    So you want to become a pickup artist. Fair enough, you’ve made a good choice. The pickup artist doesn’t have to waste time on Tinder hoping to be noticed. The pickup artist doesn’t waste time trying to go to sports events or clubs hoping to run into a beautiful single girl. Learning pickup is all…

  • Basic pickup approaches

    This post is organized by physical context (Comic Con, Public Park, Store, etc.) Hopefully each example helps you do better pickup in that context. Comic Cons Some good lines for Comic Cons are “I love your outfit! How long did it take to make?” “I like that video game too how many hours do you…

  • Case study “What are you reading?”

    Legend In this post words you say are highlighted in Blue and words she says are in Red This is my most common pickup line. It’s probably the easiest one in the world and I recommend it to those just starting out with pickup. It’s great for a few reasons: There are lots of good…