Be a cult boyfriend

Most women that I meet seem totally unphased, while sometimes there somebody who seems totally amazed

So the song above is one of my favorites. It’s a hilarious song about a man lamenting that although most women aren’t attracted to him a few women become obsessed with him. That’s what a pickup artist should be. You shouldn’t be going out with every girl you talk to. If you are trying to do that then you will appeal to the lowest common denominator. That’s pathetic.

A much better approach is to continue to develop an increasingly niche yet invaluable personality that will be irresistible to the exact type of woman you want. By talking to lots of women while simultaneously holding the “cult boyfriend” mindset you begin to be the one who says no first. You begin to be the one who walks away from her simply because you realize she could never be enough of a fan girl.